The gifts of Advent—presence, not presents
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Here we are in the season of Advent. For those unfamiliar with this term, it comes from the Latin word adventus, meaning "arrival," and it is used to refer to the four weeks leading up to Christmas. During Advent, we reflect and prepare for the celebration of Christ's birth—the ultimate gift.
So, in the spirit of Advent, I want to reflect on the best gifts that we, as Christ-followers, can give to those around us. And no, I'm not talking about a car, or a new house or a necklace from Kay Jewelers; I'm talking about the kind of gifts that leave a lasting legacy.
So, if you've ever struggled to find the perfect present for someone, this post is for you! And in the first week of Advent, I'm sharing the secret gift that can be given to every single person in your life, including your spouse, parents, children, grandchildren, neighbors and coworkers … any guesses?
That's right! It's YOU.
Physical objects will break, be forgotten, neglected, outgrown, or thrown away … but love, time, and attention are an eternal investment. Yet, so often, we aren't actually present with the people that we hang out with.
Sure, we may physically be there, but are we emotionally there? Mentally there? Spiritually there?
How can you give the gift of presence this year?
Maybe it's putting your phone away or turning it on silent when you are with other people.
Perhaps it's asking how your coworker is doing and then genuinely listening to their answer.
Maybe it's calling up a friend just to say hello, or asking someone from work over for dinner who doesn't have family around during the holidays.
And here is the crazy thing—when you give the gift of your presence, you also appreciate someone else's. By slowing down and being intentional with the relationships in your life, you convey that the other person is worthy, loved, seen, and cherished—not only by you but also by God!
I challenge you to try wrapping this one up for someone this Christmas season. I promise it will be worth it!
 | Jim Brangenberg is an established leader in the faith and work movement who has over 20 years of experience as an entrepreneur and business owner. In 2013, God called him and his wife, Martha, to begin the iWork4Him Talk Show, where they have had the privilege of challenging thousands across the globe with the simple message that your workplace is your mission field. In addition, he and Martha have co-authored a series of collaborative books, iWork4Him, sheWorks4Him, and iRetire4Him. Learn More » |
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