Do you struggle with decision fatigue?

Charles Stone

Do you struggle with decision fatigue?Adobe Stock

When we think about fatigue, we usually think of physical tiredness—we worked too hard in the yard, we didn't sleep well the night before, or we're working too many hours. Fatigue certainly includes those causes, but for many Christian leaders, or anybody for that matter, another kind of fatigue can rob our energy and diminish life and leadership effectiveness. It's called decision fatigue. It refers to how the quality of our decisions degrades after a long string of successive decisions. In other words, the more decisions you make, the more the quality of those decisions declines.

Judges make less favorable decisions later in the day and decision fatigue even affects consumer choices. So what might indicate that your decisions are affected by decision fatigue?

I've learned the effects of decision fatigue by experience. I've found that these four indicators help us recognize it.

1. You make quick, impulsive decisions you later regret you made. This happens because you want to quickly get one more thing off your plate and the quick decision seems to solve the problem. However, the real problem may be making the decision too quickly without sufficient information you need to make the best one.

2. You needlessly delay decisions. This is the counterpoint to the impulsive decision. When we get mentally tired, we can easily put off a decision that needs to be made now. Sometimes I'd move an email into another folder that still required a decision from me that I could have easily made right then. By doing so I actually doubled the time I spent making the decision because I still had to read the email again to make the decision. By doing so, I took up two chunks of time and two chunks of mental energy.

3. You send thoughtless, terse emails. I probably get 150 plus emails a day, many of them requiring a decision from me at some level. I've found that when I've had to make multiple decisions during the day, toward the end of the day I'm tempted to not think as clearly before I send an email.

4. You get mad when someone asks you for a decision.When this happens, our mental chatter sounds like this: "Great, one more decision I have to make for somebody else!" The term ego depletion refers to the idea that self-control diminishes over time when we we have already exerted lots of self control. Toward the end of the day or a week when a leader has had to make too many decisions, he may find himself losing his cool more easily, flying off the handle, or saying things he shouldn't.


Charles Stone coaches and equips pastors and teams to effectively navigate the unique challenges ministry brings. By blending biblical principles with cutting-edge brain-based practices he helps them enhance their leadership abilities, elevate their preaching/ teaching skills, and prioritize self-care. A pastor for over 42 years, he has served as a lead pastor, associate pastor, and church planter. He published seven books, and over 300 of his articles have appeared on various Christian leadership websites. He holds four earned academic degrees, including a D.Min. and a Ph.D.

Learn More »

More on Psychology and the Brain


Don't miss any of this great content! Sign up for our twice-weekly emails:

Free eBook

Leading With Eternity in Mind: The Tension of Now vs. Next

Do you need a perspective shift? In this helpful leadership book, Tim Tucker explores how holding a clear vision of the “next” changes how we live and lead in the “now.”

Download Now


Our Writers

Eric Daniel is passionate about empowering others to grow in their Spiritual Leadership. He founded …
Martha Brangenberg is a gifted developer and communicator, who has worked alongside her husband, Jim, …

Rev. Dr. Rosario “Roz" Picardo, MBA, grew up in western New York as a first-generation …

Already a member? Sign in below.

  or register now

Forgot your password?

b'S2-NEW'