6 tips for keeping your resolutions
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Every January millions make new year's resolutions. The top ones include lose weight, quit smoking, use money more wisely, and spend more time with friends.
Unfortunately, 50 percent never keep their resolution for more than six months and only 10 percent make it through the year. So, should we avoid setting resolutions (goals) for the new year because we might fail?
I don't think so. This is a great time to evaluate your life and look ahead. Here's what I suggest.
1. Specifically state what you want to do (i.e., read through the Bible in a year).
2. Really want it. Is it in your gut? Have you decided that you just can't continue down the same path any longer? Are you really serious?
3. Believe God wants it for you. He wants you to move forward in your faith and in your life. He is on your side. He is on your team. "By his divine power, God has given us everything we need for living a godly life" (2 Peter 1:3 NLT).
4. Put real effort into keeping your resolution/goal. God wants you to partner with him and put your heart into God prompted resolutions. New birth does not rule out human activity. "… make every effort to respond to God's promises" (2 Peter 1:5 NLT).
5. Break down your goal into small, bite-sized pieces.
6. Enlist help. Ask a trusted friend to periodically check on your progress.
If you apply these simple steps, keeping a new year's resolution won't seem so daunting.
 | Charles Stone coaches and equips pastors and teams to effectively navigate the unique challenges ministry brings. By blending biblical principles with cutting-edge brain-based practices he helps them enhance their leadership abilities, elevate their preaching/ teaching skills, and prioritize self-care. A pastor for over 42 years, he has served as a lead pastor, associate pastor, and church planter. He published seven books, and over 300 of his articles have appeared on various Christian leadership websites. He holds four earned academic degrees, including a D.Min. and a Ph.D. Learn More » |
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